First of all, don't get me wrong, I absolutely don't agree with Chinabounder's way of dealing with women; I come from a big family, and if I knew that some guy like him was hitting on one of my family members, I'd make sure he would not be able to hit anything ever again. But what I like are people who talk out, people who swim against the stream, as we say in Germany. It's more then fascinating what kind of waves his 'Sex and Shanghai / ????' blog created. After getting quite famous, a chinese professor named Zhang Jiehai started mobilizing users all around China to 'find him and to kick him out of China'. A professor of Psychology. That's like a shrink starting to beat his patients, is it not? He takes on him in his post 'A tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.' That post is already quite a few months old, but recently he published the post 'A new girl', where he starts to blame the chinese media of focusing on the absolutely wrong topics. What he writes there has quite some truth, while a lot is exaggerated, a lot also shocks. Give it a read. Looking at the comments, it's quite obvious that his readers are 'black & white' people, they either love him or hate him. People, there are grey zones! You don't have to agree with everything he says, but you should give him a chance with this post. It's not about making love to women, it's about China. I hope to read more political posts from him in the future, as it gives people a different view on things. And giving completely different views on things is always a good thing, no matter if the author is a idiot or a teacher, like in this case.